After 4 years of marriage (11 years of relationship – we remained virgins till wedding), my wife doesn’t love me anymore. She confessed that she loves me as a brother, but she is not attracted to me anymore. She told me that I am a great person, but there is nothing more I have to do to please her. She doesn’t want to make love anymore. She asked that we live together as brothers to raise our child. 6 months ago, she felt she far from Jesus, but after she met her new spiritual father, everything went better for her spiritual side and she feels a lot better now, however, nothing changed towards me. It’s been two months without any affection (not even kissing). I am dying slowly. All internet forums confirm affair, but this is not our case and they won’t understand. If someone can advise me, it would be appreciated. I am really lost. I do love her.
“Dying” is serious ooo. This sex issue can become something else. Well, I think your wife may be cheating on you. May be not with another man, although I will recommend you check that out. I think she may be cheating with the children, friends, siblings, and anything or anyone else consuming her attention.
Hmm, this sex thing lol. I think they should seek help e.g. counselling. Denying a man sex may be interpreted as personal rejection.