You poke fun at her in public.
You shout at her before your guests.
You shout at her before your guests.
You overrule her instructions, undermine her authority before the children.
You forget her birthday and consistently fail to keep your promises to her.
She does all the house chores, while you standby as a spectator and supreme benefactor.
She goes out of her way to meet your needs and you would not even say “THANK YOU”.
When you hurt her, apologies are often “forced” out of you.
You continue these and many more because you are under the illusion that your wife will always understand.
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You poke fun at her in public.
When people take each other for granted for a long time, they may eventually come to a snapping point.